Just because you’re eloping doesn’t mean your loved ones can’t be part of it. Elopements are all about choosing what feels right for you, but you can still find meaningful ways to include the people who matter most. Even if they aren’t there in person, their presence can still be felt. Whether you’re exchanging vows in the mountains or running barefoot on the beach, there are simple ways to bring them into your day. Things like reading letters, wearing something sentimental, or planning a celebration later can help you feel close to your people without changing the intimate vibe of your elopement.
Carry Their Words With You
Start by gathering letters or notes from your family and friends. Ask them to write something meaningful, words of encouragement, advice, or favorite memories they’ve shared with you as a couple. You can keep these messages in a journal, tuck them inside your vow book, or even fold one into your bouquet. Read them whenever it feels right—before your vows, during the ceremony, or on your way there with a quiet moment on the plane or over coffee. It’s a simple yet powerful way to feel their love and support. Even though they aren’t physically with you, their words become part of your day and your story, something you’ll always carry with you.
Creative Ways to Include Loved Ones in Your Elopement
Another option is going virtual. Set up a livestream for your ceremony or FaceTime a few people before you begin. Some couples even plan a virtual champagne toast with their people afterward. It doesn’t have to be perfect, just a way to share the moment and let them celebrate with you.
Bringing Family Traditions Into Your Elopement
If you have traditions you want to honor, bring them along in small but meaningful ways. You could wear a piece of jewelry from a parent, carry something special from a grandparent, or even use the same vows they once said. Maybe you include a favorite family recipe in your post-elopement dinner or play a song that reminds you of home. These simple touches help connect your past to your present, making your day feel even more personal. Honoring your roots doesn’t have to be big, it just needs to feel true to you.
When the day is done, share the story. Send photos, make a little video recap, or write a blog post with your favorite memories. You could even plan a small dinner or party later on. Eloping is about choosing what matters most, and including others in your own way is part of that. With intention, including your loved ones in your elopement (even from afar) can feel just as meaningful as having them there. View more heartfelt moments in my portfolio.
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